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Foxmeister
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There was a topic about the high divorce rates in our culture today. I had a discussion about this with someone earlier tonight. I pointed out that even amongst Christians, the divorce rate was high. I was asked why and then it hit me. Ephesians 5:21-33
First of all, not many Christian couples are submitting to each other out of reverence to Christ. Instead, they often think of themselves and what it is they can get out of the marriage instead of concentrating on what they can give to the marriage as a reverent Christian. You can't submit to each other out of reverence to Christ if only one is an obedient servant of Christ.
Many Christian husbands are not living up to their responsibilities as being the spiritual leader in their homes. How can he expect his wife to submit to him if he does not love her as Christ loves the church? If he loved her as Christ loved the church, then he would see to it she is washed through water with the Word. In other words, he would be seeing to it she is being fed by God's Word. Now he can't do that if he's really not being fed by the Word either. A lot of couples go to church, but what is their motive for going; is it to be fed God's Word and to live as obedient servants of God; or is it for appearances sake?
I could go on in more depth on this, but I think it's a good starting point for discussion.
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
First of all, not many Christian couples are submitting to each other out of reverence to Christ. Instead, they often think of themselves and what it is they can get out of the marriage instead of concentrating on what they can give to the marriage as a reverent Christian. You can't submit to each other out of reverence to Christ if only one is an obedient servant of Christ.
Many Christian husbands are not living up to their responsibilities as being the spiritual leader in their homes. How can he expect his wife to submit to him if he does not love her as Christ loves the church? If he loved her as Christ loved the church, then he would see to it she is washed through water with the Word. In other words, he would be seeing to it she is being fed by God's Word. Now he can't do that if he's really not being fed by the Word either. A lot of couples go to church, but what is their motive for going; is it to be fed God's Word and to live as obedient servants of God; or is it for appearances sake?
I could go on in more depth on this, but I think it's a good starting point for discussion.