CeeJay said:Does "government teat" make it sound less sexy? I think yes.
stradial said:Just a quick note.
We have all been through hard, at least I presume we have.
There are hard times and there are hard times.
I have been through hard times where I had very little extra money and ate a lot of Ramen noodles.
Then I have been through hard times where I had $5 and no money, that I knew for sure about, coming in for 5-6 days.
Then I had to decide, do I use it all for gas at this time or do I just put a dollar of gas in at a time, in case I need to buy peanut butter to eat.
Those are hard times.
Only those who are in those situations know what is what.
By the way, a few of those hard times I thought I had made good decisions, but I was wrong.
Most of the hard times, I just made bad decisions without much thought involved.
CeeJay said:stradial said:Just a quick note.
We have all been through hard, at least I presume we have.
There are hard times and there are hard times.
I have been through hard times where I had very little extra money and ate a lot of Ramen noodles.
Then I have been through hard times where I had $5 and no money, that I knew for sure about, coming in for 5-6 days.
Then I had to decide, do I use it all for gas at this time or do I just put a dollar of gas in at a time, in case I need to buy peanut butter to eat.
Those are hard times.
Only those who are in those situations know what is what.
By the way, a few of those hard times I thought I had made good decisions, but I was wrong.
Most of the hard times, I just made bad decisions without much thought involved.
I think people assume some of us don't know what hard times are. I've used change to buy bread and chicken noodle soup and a dozen eggs to last for the rest of month. Many times. For a few years in a row. I think there was a spell there where I didn't buy a stitch of clothing for myself besides some work shirts at the thrift store for three or four years. I really didn't like it, don't think much about it now.
I really don't mind free lunch. Mine would never eat it, but I don't begrudge a kid some food. Until I see them pull out a wad of bills out of their pocket that is more than I have in the bank. Then I wonder. (Yep, more than once.)
I think we should help people who NEED it. Then it wouldn't be such a tax burden on the rest of us and we wouldn't think twice about it. If you NEED it, you should have it. If you don't really NEED it, but just WANT it, that is different.
I never thought that way until I worked in a public school and saw the flagrant abuse year after year. Free lunch families rolling up in Escalades. Kids who pay for their lunch being made fun of by kids who are wearing nicer clothing because they are fully subsidized. Kids telling me they were going to get a gov't check when they grow up. I just think we need to roll it back a bit and THINK about what we consume and where it comes from and who actually pays the bills.
I think we are in dangerous territory and we need to change how think and how we do things. Why isn't a simple life good enough anymore?
CeeJay said:Am I an a-hole for this? I don't think so. I am just the one willing to say it out loud because it is sinking in to me that it will never change. So I might as well just say it, have it on the record that I thought it was wrong.
J-man said:No, you're absolutely not an A-hole about it and have every right to your opinion, to heck with what others may think about it. I find your comments regarding the amount of taxes you paid as well as your attitude towards spending more time with your family rather than earning extra income (thus paying more tax for others) very interesting. I think you hit the nail on the head there, I feel we're not long away from many "working class" people (me and most others I know) from reaching that point. Sooner or later those who are working to support others through tax robbery will make the same decision. There will eventually come a time where the desire to work 18 hours per day to make more money will finally change, priorities will shift. When the tax base erodes is when the walls will finally begin to tumble. We may not agree on topics here but I will always respect your views, and please don't allow anything I may post offend you either. Sometimes I post very little, other times I dive in and type a lot of none-sense. None of my input is supported by science or facts, it's mostly just pure opinion based on years of experience and observation.
LisaC said:Let's not lose the fact that our God tells us to help the poor. Sometimes, we get so focused on our abilities to care for ourselves and our families, that we forget that there are people out there that do need help. (And I'm not referring to those who take advantage, but about hungry kids).
Madea said:LisaC said:Let's not lose the fact that our God tells us to help the poor. Sometimes, we get so focused on our abilities to care for ourselves and our families, that we forget that there are people out there that do need help. (And I'm not referring to those who take advantage, but about hungry kids).
But God tells US to do it, not make it the responsibility of the government.
LisaC said:Madea said:LisaC said:Let's not lose the fact that our God tells us to help the poor. Sometimes, we get so focused on our abilities to care for ourselves and our families, that we forget that there are people out there that do need help. (And I'm not referring to those who take advantage, but about hungry kids).
But God tells US to do it, not make it the responsibility of the government.
I know, but we fail miserably at it. And the government isn't doing a better job at it either.
Madea said:LisaC said:Madea said:LisaC said:Let's not lose the fact that our God tells us to help the poor. Sometimes, we get so focused on our abilities to care for ourselves and our families, that we forget that there are people out there that do need help. (And I'm not referring to those who take advantage, but about hungry kids).
But God tells US to do it, not make it the responsibility of the government.
I know, but we fail miserably at it. And the government isn't doing a better job at it either.
We didn't during the Great Depression. Folks took care of each other. Our attitude has certainly changed. ray
ShoeDiva said:Madea said:LisaC said:Madea said:LisaC said:Let's not lose the fact that our God tells us to help the poor. Sometimes, we get so focused on our abilities to care for ourselves and our families, that we forget that there are people out there that do need help. (And I'm not referring to those who take advantage, but about hungry kids).
But God tells US to do it, not make it the responsibility of the government.
I know, but we fail miserably at it. And the government isn't doing a better job at it either.
We didn't during the Great Depression. Folks took care of each other. Our attitude has certainly changed. ray
Did they? I really do not remember reading that people took care of one another. Of course it has been awhile and I remember reading about the New Deal, people malnourished, children out of schools, teens riding the rail and the dust bowl, etc, but not that. Do you have a reference I can read? (or point me in the right direction) I think reading up on that would be a good thing. (I will google, but I know that will bring up a billion websites on the Great Depression and not necessarily the issue I am looking to read.)