ShoeDiva said:
I can see a one bite rule on new things, otherwise I am not real big on forcing a kid to eat something I know they do not like. :dunno I would not want someone to do that to me, and just because they are under 18 does not make it any better. (I am speaking of food, nothing else when I say just because they are under 18. We all know that for other things this does not apply.)
I would also never send a kid to bed hungry if it was just they do not like chicken and that is what I, the adult, chose to make. (or a new recipe I was unsure of, etc.) I would not make another dinner, but a sandwich or something similar would be an option, before hunger.
(I also know there are exceptions when you might have to force a child into eating something else because said child will ONLY eat candy (just an example) I know those situations are different, my post is in general)
The princess goes through phases where she will avoid eating veggies of any kind if she thinks she has other options. This is also why I will only give her ONE cookie in her lunch - I want to make sure that she eats the healthy stuff and doesn't fill up on junk food.
There are things that she doesn't like and if we're having those, I always make sure that we are having something that she will eat. (Like if we are having chili or enchiladas - she will NOT eat those, regardless of how it may taste). But, there are things (especially veggies) that I will still make her take a bite from time to time because I think it's important that she's willing to try things that she normally doesn't eat. She doesn't have to take a big bite - I just want her to taste it to make sure she still doesn't like it. It's actually not an argument in our house because we have always done that. Now, I just put it on her plate and she will taste it and then choose whether or not to finish it. No biggie.
I know what you mean about letting her go to bed hungry - we had to do that at times growing up because there were times when there was no food to eat in our house. I would never let the princess go through that.