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In Stellarvores S/O topic about his dating experience, an interesting point about church was brought up. GD made an excellent comment that churches were for sinners, not the pure and saints.
When I lived in MI, I had a big problem with cliques in churches. It seemed every church had them and the wealthiest cliques thought they ran the church. Pastors caved into the cliques made up of the well-to-do.
Many pastors in GA will not marry anyone who is divorced. I've heard many stories from people who were divorced and remarrying say they were told by some pastors they wouldn't perform the marriage ceremony because they would be fornicators. Obviously, these pastors believe if you were married to an unbeliever or someone who beat the crap out of you almost every day, that you should have remained married. I don't get this at all.
When I lived in MI, I had a big problem with cliques in churches. It seemed every church had them and the wealthiest cliques thought they ran the church. Pastors caved into the cliques made up of the well-to-do.
Many pastors in GA will not marry anyone who is divorced. I've heard many stories from people who were divorced and remarrying say they were told by some pastors they wouldn't perform the marriage ceremony because they would be fornicators. Obviously, these pastors believe if you were married to an unbeliever or someone who beat the crap out of you almost every day, that you should have remained married. I don't get this at all.