Yes, I was.Madea said:I read ShoeDiva story earlier. It's a tough read.
I saw that. Perhaps they are just doing a little "CMA" pending results?Madea said:Cobb has also indicated they are awaiting autopsy results. The charges could change. But I don't think it will pass the "wilful" test.
If stupidity was a crime we'd all be in jail at one point. Most parents have "neglected" their kid once or twice, yes, all of us. That one time we turned our back or walked out of the room when potential danger was present or a slight possibility. Most of the time, by pure luck, we don't have to deal with the death of our child. My son is a perfect example, no doubt it was just pure luck he is still with us. I remember my grandmother telling me of one of her siblings who died as an infant after pulling a pot of boiling water onto himself from the stove. They lived in a two room house...all 13 of them. I like the way the article stated it, "an imperfect world." Unless the father tests positive for substance abuse or an elevated alcohol level, or has a record of DFAC visitations I think it's fair to say it was a horrible mistake, one the father won't need a jury to convict him on any worse than he and the child's mother have already done. He will serve his sentence the rest of his life. Again from the article, if there is no intent then is it really a crime? I doubt very serious he woke up that morning and planned the outcome of his day as it unfolded. The older I get the more I realize just how thoughtless I can be about things, especially if my routine is interrupted in any way. I'm a creature of habit and repitition, any changes easily get me off my daily routine. If it's revealed that the dad was a bum, otherwise neglectful, abusive, or addicted to substances then I will gladly change my stance but until then I will pray for him and his family and friends who are now forced to deal with this heartbreaking, and yes, preventable loss.Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
Well said sir.J-man said:If stupidity was a crime we'd all be in jail at one point. Most parents have "neglected" their kid once or twice, yes, all of us. That one time we turned our back or walked out of the room when potential danger was present or a slight possibility. Most of the time, by pure luck, we don't have to deal with the death of our child. My son is a perfect example, no doubt it was just pure luck he is still with us. I remember my grandmother telling me of one of her siblings who died as an infant after pulling a pot of boiling water onto himself from the stove. They lived in a two room house...all 13 of them. I like the way the article stated it, "an imperfect world." Unless the father tests positive for substance abuse or an elevated alcohol level, or has a record of DFAC visitations I think it's fair to say it was a horrible mistake, one the father won't need a jury to convict him on any worse than he and the child's mother have already done. He will serve his sentence the rest of his life. Again from the article, if there is no intent then is it really a crime? I doubt very serious he woke up that morning and planned the outcome of his day as it unfolded. The older I get the more I realize just how thoughtless I can be about things, especially if my routine is interrupted in any way. I'm a creature of habit and repitition, any changes easily get me off my daily routine. If it's revealed that the dad was a bum, otherwise neglectful, abusive, or addicted to substances then I will gladly change my stance but until then I will pray for him and his family and friends who are now forced to deal with this heartbreaking, and yes, preventable loss.Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
Madea said:An attorney friend of mine posted the story earlier. He also appeared on the 5 o'clock news giving a legal opinion on the issue. Within minutes he was receiving hate email.
J-man said:If stupidity was a crime we'd all be in jail at one point. Most parents have "neglected" their kid once or twice, yes, all of us. That one time we turned our back or walked out of the room when potential danger was present or a slight possibility. Most of the time, by pure luck, we don't have to deal with the death of our child. My son is a perfect example, no doubt it was just pure luck he is still with us. I remember my grandmother telling me of one of her siblings who died as an infant after pulling a pot of boiling water onto himself from the stove. They lived in a two room house...all 13 of them. I like the way the article stated it, "an imperfect world." Unless the father tests positive for substance abuse or an elevated alcohol level, or has a record of DFAC visitations I think it's fair to say it was a horrible mistake, one the father won't need a jury to convict him on any worse than he and the child's mother have already done. He will serve his sentence the rest of his life. Again from the article, if there is no intent then is it really a crime? I doubt very serious he woke up that morning and planned the outcome of his day as it unfolded. The older I get the more I realize just how thoughtless I can be about things, especially if my routine is interrupted in any way. I'm a creature of habit and repitition, any changes easily get me off my daily routine. If it's revealed that the dad was a bum, otherwise neglectful, abusive, or addicted to substances then I will gladly change my stance but until then I will pray for him and his family and friends who are now forced to deal with this heartbreaking, and yes, preventable loss.Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
Changed my mind...not on what you said, but what I posted. I felt I should just wait.Grey Colson said:I have a source who read the search warrants in this case. Unfortunately we can't rely on the news for all the information. I found it very difficult to believe, but it appears quite deliberate.
Keep in mind that the police don't show up in an incident such as this and jump to conclusions. A LOT of hours, investigation and interviews went into this case before the arrest was made.
All I should say at this point. Love you long time...
Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
Well that's a big disappointment. I'll crawl back into my shell and go back to sleep now.Grey Colson said:I have a source who read the search warrants in this case. Unfortunately we can't rely on the news for all the information. I found it very difficult to believe, but it appears quite deliberate.
Keep in mind that the police don't show up in an incident such as this and jump to conclusions. A LOT of hours, investigation and interviews went into this case before the arrest was made.
All I should say at this point. Love you long time...
ShoeDiva said:Changed my mind...not on what you said, but what I posted. I felt I should just wait.Grey Colson said:I have a source who read the search warrants in this case. Unfortunately we can't rely on the news for all the information. I found it very difficult to believe, but it appears quite deliberate.
Keep in mind that the police don't show up in an incident such as this and jump to conclusions. A LOT of hours, investigation and interviews went into this case before the arrest was made.
All I should say at this point. Love you long time...
Grey Colson said:I have a source who read the search warrants in this case. Unfortunately we can't rely on the news for all the information. I found it very difficult to believe, but it appears quite deliberate.
Keep in mind that the police don't show up in an incident such as this and jump to conclusions. A LOT of hours, investigation and interviews went into this case before the arrest was made.
All I should say at this point. Love you long time...
J-man said:If stupidity was a crime we'd all be in jail at one point. Most parents have "neglected" their kid once or twice, yes, all of us. That one time we turned our back or walked out of the room when potential danger was present or a slight possibility. Most of the time, by pure luck, we don't have to deal with the death of our child. My son is a perfect example, no doubt it was just pure luck he is still with us. I remember my grandmother telling me of one of her siblings who died as an infant after pulling a pot of boiling water onto himself from the stove. They lived in a two room house...all 13 of them. I like the way the article stated it, "an imperfect world." Unless the father tests positive for substance abuse or an elevated alcohol level, or has a record of DFAC visitations I think it's fair to say it was a horrible mistake, one the father won't need a jury to convict him on any worse than he and the child's mother have already done. He will serve his sentence the rest of his life. Again from the article, if there is no intent then is it really a crime? I doubt very serious he woke up that morning and planned the outcome of his day as it unfolded. The older I get the more I realize just how thoughtless I can be about things, especially if my routine is interrupted in any way. I'm a creature of habit and repitition, any changes easily get me off my daily routine. If it's revealed that the dad was a bum, otherwise neglectful, abusive, or addicted to substances then I will gladly change my stance but until then I will pray for him and his family and friends who are now forced to deal with this heartbreaking, and yes, preventable loss.Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
Boss 302 said:Winchester said:His stupidity and neglectful actions took the life of a child. To me it's no different the driving drunk and killing someone in a wreck.
Sadly, the DA's office will plea bargain this to either involuntary homicide(misdemeanor) or voluntary homicide and release him time served with a few years probation.
I have no sympathy for those who cause the death of a child, willfully or by stupidity.
That's why I think the DA went for First Degree, so a plea bargain can be made.