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Rolling down the highway
I'm backing out of this thread but before I do I just want to say thank you to everyone who has served. :love
Freedom isn't free.
Freedom isn't free.
::ditto :CLAPnaturegirl said:I'm backing out of this thread but before I do I just want to say thank you to everyone who has served. :love
Freedom isn't free.
unionmom said:I think it's cute that you presume to know me and my experiences and or exposures to those in the military. You also seem to have skipped right over where I acknowledge that PTSD needs to be recognized and these soldiers need to be taken care of. I never suggested or implied that the stress of military service is the same as paying the bills and it is clear you already have a chip on your shoulder on the subject since you went there with it. I'm not going to get into a pissing contest with you over my life experiences compared to yours, my family/friends and their experiences compared to yours. I do know that I personally have seen things that would screw a lot of people up for life but I'm fine (shut up GD ) ) but I don't judge them for that. You go ahead and be mad at me. I'm ok with that. You go ahead and disagree with me. I'm ok with that. I still stand by my position. They deserve to be properly taken care of and, if so deemed, come up with an award for them. In my mind they do not qualify for Purple Heart.
...a bullet basically goes through every body the same so there is a level playing field (so to speak) with a physical injury but not everyone is made up of the same mental strength and/or capacity and things that one person can go through with absolutely no impact could completely destroy another.
It's not as easy as one would think. Can it be faked? Yes. Is it as much as some think? No, I don't think so. You are right not every one is a stand up citizen. There is a change in the travel comp. Now they send you a check for your travel expense.you can fake PTSD in order to recieve monetary compensation. You may be upset with me saying some people fake PTSD but not every military member is a stand up, honest citizen. I have seen it first hand.
gog8tors said:http://www.armytimes.com/news/2012/06/military-group-urges-purple-heart-for-ptsd-062912w/
More from The Army Times. There are some comments comparing it to the CIB (I think they call it something else now,) but the same general feeling.
gog8tors said:I am truly not sure how I feel about this. To say I am conflicted would be almost an understatement. I do understand where the Veteran may be coming from. It wasn't that long ago that PTSD wasn't even recognized as a real combat related disorder. It is also a compensated service connected disability. It is rated in degrees. Even the guy in graves registration can get PTSD. I know someone who is a LE, that knows he is suffering, (Gulf War) but will not go in for the treatment, and diagnosis because he stated he would lose his job.
I know that there are guys who hesitate to fill out the paper work for a pistol because of their PTSD. I don't know if the PHM will make a difference in how the civilian population see our warriors or not. Damn Hollywood for exacerbating the problem.
Husband had a grenade that exploded in his foxhole. We didn't discover the shrapnel until years later when he had a dental x-ray. He remembers the indecent, but he didn't realize he had been hit. He thought it was his buddy's blood. Do I know that was when things really changed for him? No. I do know at this point it is very difficult to get a PHM
It's not as easy as one would think. Can it be faked? Yes. Is it as much as some think? No, I don't think so. You are right not every one is a stand up citizen. There is a change in the travel comp. Now they send you a check for your travel expense.you can fake PTSD in order to recieve monetary compensation. You may be upset with me saying some people fake PTSD but not every military member is a stand up, honest citizen. I have seen it first hand.
One thing I will ask y'all, please play nice. We are adults.
Do we have a Duh smiley? I get the difference now. Husband has the CIB, and I remember the dust up when they wanted to award it to the Granada vets. So, they came up with a different medal.Foxmeister said:gog8tors said:http://www.armytimes.com/news/2012/06/military-group-urges-purple-heart-for-ptsd-062912w/
More from The Army Times. There are some comments comparing it to the CIB (I think they call it something else now,) but the same general feeling.
The CIB is the Combat Infantryman Badge and is awarded to an Army infantryman with the 11 or 18 series MOS. The CAB is the Combat Action Badge and is awarded to Army personnel who are not Infantry, but have been engaged by the enemy in hostile action or engaged the enemy in hostile action.
I read the article you linked. Some of the readers who responded to it on that site think there should be a separate award for those receiving PTSD. I have to disagree with that because it could cause a stigma for those who wear it. Think about this for a second; a lot of people really don't understand PTSD at all. Many believe someone who suffers from PTSD is "crazy" or a "mental case." Now imagine if there was a different medal and ribbon worn on the uniform that someone has PTSD. That person could be treated differently, but in an adverse way. People can be cruel and make comments that could be overheard by the person wearing such a ribbon or medal. I would also think that would be a violation of the HIPPA laws.
There would be no way I would wear a ribbon or medal on my uniform that would identify me with PTSD for the reasons I gave. Again, no I don't have PTSD; but I have several very close friends who do.
Yes, I don't know anyone who has fully recovered from PTSD. I can tell you it can get to a manageable level, but it never goes away.Foxmeister said:gog8tors said:I am truly not sure how I feel about this. To say I am conflicted would be almost an understatement. I do understand where the Veteran may be coming from. It wasn't that long ago that PTSD wasn't even recognized as a real combat related disorder. It is also a compensated service connected disability. It is rated in degrees. Even the guy in graves registration can get PTSD. I know someone who is a LE, that knows he is suffering, (Gulf War) but will not go in for the treatment, and diagnosis because he stated he would lose his job.
I know that there are guys who hesitate to fill out the paper work for a pistol because of their PTSD. I don't know if the PHM will make a difference in how the civilian population see our warriors or not. Damn Hollywood for exacerbating the problem.
Husband had a grenade that exploded in his foxhole. We didn't discover the shrapnel until years later when he had a dental x-ray. He remembers the indecent, but he didn't realize he had been hit. He thought it was his buddy's blood. Do I know that was when things really changed for him? No. I do know at this point it is very difficult to get a PHM
It's not as easy as one would think. Can it be faked? Yes. Is it as much as some think? No, I don't think so. You are right not every one is a stand up citizen. There is a change in the travel comp. Now they send you a check for your travel expense.you can fake PTSD in order to recieve monetary compensation. You may be upset with me saying some people fake PTSD but not every military member is a stand up, honest citizen. I have seen it first hand.
One thing I will ask y'all, please play nice. We are adults.
I'm not sure if the Purple Heart should be awarded to those with PTSD either, but I do seriously believe it's a lifelong wound a person who has it will suffer with. I think what this advocacy group's intent is with pushing for the Purple Heart to be awarded for PTSD is really to emphasize how serious PTSD really is. A guy can get wounded in the leg and have no lifelong ill effects from it, but PTSD is a different matter entirely.
I have a friend who was in Desert Storm. He was an MP working in a EPW camp near KKMC, Saudi Arabia. These camps were huge. He broke up a fight between two Iraqi prisoners. One went running away and Van started chasing him. The other Iraqi picked up a rock and threw it trying to hit the running Iraqi, but it hit Van in the back of the head. Van had to get six stitches in the head. He was awarded the Purple Heart because he received a wound inflicted by the enemy. He tried to refuse it, but they held a formation and awarded it to him anyway. He said he was never so embarrassed in his life as he was that day.
*edited for double quote*
The infantrymen who participated in the Grenada invasion received the CIB. There was no substitute for it. The CAB was created and approved in 2005.gog8tors said:Do we have a Duh smiley? I get the difference now. Husband has the CIB, and I remember the dust up when they wanted to award it to the Granada vets. So, they came up with a different medal.Foxmeister said:gog8tors said:http://www.armytimes.com/news/2012/06/military-group-urges-purple-heart-for-ptsd-062912w/
More from The Army Times. There are some comments comparing it to the CIB (I think they call it something else now,) but the same general feeling.
The CIB is the Combat Infantryman Badge and is awarded to an Army infantryman with the 11 or 18 series MOS. The CAB is the Combat Action Badge and is awarded to Army personnel who are not Infantry, but have been engaged by the enemy in hostile action or engaged the enemy in hostile action.
I read the article you linked. Some of the readers who responded to it on that site think there should be a separate award for those receiving PTSD. I have to disagree with that because it could cause a stigma for those who wear it. Think about this for a second; a lot of people really don't understand PTSD at all. Many believe someone who suffers from PTSD is "crazy" or a "mental case." Now imagine if there was a different medal and ribbon worn on the uniform that someone has PTSD. That person could be treated differently, but in an adverse way. People can be cruel and make comments that could be overheard by the person wearing such a ribbon or medal. I would also think that would be a violation of the HIPPA laws.
There would be no way I would wear a ribbon or medal on my uniform that would identify me with PTSD for the reasons I gave. Again, no I don't have PTSD; but I have several very close friends who do.
I agree that a medal for PTSD would not be something we should do. First this is something you don't really deal with until after discharge anyway. Next there is still the crazed combat vet stigma. I really don't know the answer. I do know that it is extremely difficult for the suffers to get a disability rating of more then 10%. I'm thinking the medal it's self isn't that important as much as the help these guys need. And, making sure that people know the help is there. Some people think the VA is still like it was back in the 60's.
The good news is the mental health clinics are also being put in the community clinics. I don't think many people know that these clinics are open/ing.
I think, he misunderstood you. I know you know this is not fake.unionmom said:So let me get this straight ... at no point have I said PTSD isn't real and at no point have I said that PTSD shouldn't be treated and the soldiers fully taken care of yet somehow Fox has decided that I said it is fake and he has attacked me for saying so? Dude, you need to get out of the heat. :laugh
unionmom said:So let me get this straight ... at no point have I said PTSD isn't real and at no point have I said that PTSD shouldn't be treated and the soldiers fully taken care of yet somehow Fox has decided that I said it is fake and he has attacked me for saying so? Dude, you need to get out of the heat. :laugh
gog8tors said:I think, he misunderstood you. I know you know this is not fake.unionmom said:So let me get this straight ... at no point have I said PTSD isn't real and at no point have I said that PTSD shouldn't be treated and the soldiers fully taken care of yet somehow Fox has decided that I said it is fake and he has attacked me for saying so? Dude, you need to get out of the heat. :laugh
I don't know if people understand just how serious this is. It has nothing with one mind being weaker then another. I would almost say it is the stronger mind that is more likely to break.
unionmom said:And again, it's cute that you presume to know what I have experienced in life. You blew up and over-reacted because of whatever your personal issues are and ended up making yourself look ... well, no point going there. In the end, you basically agree with exactly what I said. Wasn't that fun? :huh
I've already told you that I am not getting into a pissing contest with you over personal experiences. I don't talk about what I've been through for a reason. I've left much of my past in the past for a reason and I'm sure as h*ll not going to post it here. Just don't presume to know what my experiences have been. (And don't think war in a foreign land is the only place to get the experiences you speak of, either.)Foxmeister said:unionmom said:And again, it's cute that you presume to know what I have experienced in life. You blew up and over-reacted because of whatever your personal issues are and ended up making yourself look ... well, no point going there. In the end, you basically agree with exactly what I said. Wasn't that fun? :huh
Have you been in combat; had bullets shot at you; bombs exploding around you?
unionmom said:I've already told you that I am not getting into a pissing contest with you over personal experiences. I don't talk about what I've been through for a reason. I've left much of my past in the past for a reason and I'm sure as h*ll not going to post it here. Just don't presume to know what my experiences have been. (And don't think war in a foreign land is the only place to get the experiences you speak of, either.)Foxmeister said:unionmom said:And again, it's cute that you presume to know what I have experienced in life. You blew up and over-reacted because of whatever your personal issues are and ended up making yourself look ... well, no point going there. In the end, you basically agree with exactly what I said. Wasn't that fun? :huh
Have you been in combat; had bullets shot at you; bombs exploding around you?