Doncha just hate

gog8tors

Driving Instructor
When someone assumes you said something, then proceeds to ream you out about it. Not, even bothering to tell you what you allegedly stated. If it weren't for some really great kids, I would be so outta there.
 
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
 
deewee said:
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.
 
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.
I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.
 
deewee said:
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.
I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.
Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.
 
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.
I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.
Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.
What a pain!! I will pray for you now as I end my day.
 
Genevieve said:
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
gog8tors said:
deewee said:
Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.
I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.
Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.
What a pain!! I will pray for you now as I end my day.
Thank you. :hug
 
Been there, done that and have a closet FULL of t-shirts. I thought about posting something along the same lines a few days ago, but got busy.

This is similar to what I experience at work sometimes. 1 time is too often. I have made it a point in my career to not "jump the gun" and scold an employee until I have ALL, not some, but ALL the facts. I can literally not stand someone who jumps on people without hearing the whole, entire story. Unfortunatlly, that's not the SOP in some places.

I'm right there with you! :'(
 
Grey Colson said:
Been there, done that and have a closet FULL of t-shirts. I thought about posting something along the same lines a few days ago, but got busy.

This is similar to what I experience at work sometimes. 1 time is too often. I have made it a point in my career to not "jump the gun" and scold an employee until I have ALL, not some, but ALL the facts. I can literally not stand someone who jumps on people without hearing the whole, entire story. Unfortunatlly, that's not the SOP in some places.

I'm right there with you! :'(
It makes it worse when it's a volunteer thing. I'm slowly getting over it, but I know now to just give no real answers.
 
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