Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.deewee said:Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.gog8tors said:Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.deewee said:Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.deewee said:I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.gog8tors said:Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.deewee said:Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
What a pain!! I will pray for you now as I end my day.gog8tors said:Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.deewee said:I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.gog8tors said:Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.deewee said:Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
Thank you. :hugGenevieve said:What a pain!! I will pray for you now as I end my day.gog8tors said:Yeah, it's going to be hard. But, I know that if things don't improve where he is, there will be a changing of the guard. So to speak.deewee said:I detest getting blindsided! Whatever it is...eventually it will be ironed out. The hardest part, for me, is just going on and waiting on the situation to be corrected. In my experience, the offending party usually gets a dose of their own meanness eventually.gog8tors said:Yea, I'm usually pretty good about standing up, but this came out of nowhere. It is one of those I should have said something at the time, and now it's too late, and would cause more drama. I know that wouldn't be good for the organization. But, it still hurts.deewee said:Stuff like that hurts me too, but I'm getting better at standing up for myself. Somehow as I age I care less what others think/say.
It makes it worse when it's a volunteer thing. I'm slowly getting over it, but I know now to just give no real answers.Grey Colson said:Been there, done that and have a closet FULL of t-shirts. I thought about posting something along the same lines a few days ago, but got busy.
This is similar to what I experience at work sometimes. 1 time is too often. I have made it a point in my career to not "jump the gun" and scold an employee until I have ALL, not some, but ALL the facts. I can literally not stand someone who jumps on people without hearing the whole, entire story. Unfortunatlly, that's not the SOP in some places.
I'm right there with you! :'(