Cheaters!

Stellarvore

Expert Driver
Oh, this makes me so mad. So I went to facebook today, and I have two ex-girlfriends I've managed to be friends with. The first ever one, and the cool funny one that became a lesbian. Anyway, I wished the latter a happy birthday today. And I noticed something on her page...her partner and a child that looked very familiar to me. So I went and looked at some more, and I know that kid. I never knew Ms. Partner had a child, though I've met her several times before I left NY. Like I said, ex was cool and stuff so no issue. Anyway, I go double check, my friend from way back then is the father.

Problem is that these girls were together way back then when she was also with my buddy. Knowing this now explains why he was SO angry for so long...she must have been cheating on him for at least three years. He never said exactly what happened, but I knew it was his girlfriend at the time. I just never knew SHE was HER.

I don't care about the circumstance of the girls relationship, I'm glad they're happy and that they love each other. I'm pretty pissed that she did that to my buddy though.

Had he not fell off the face of the earth when he became a dad, she'd have been caught. Seen the girls together a lot, on FB and in person, and hung out with them. Had I also been hanging out with him....

Man that sucks.


Makes me more grateful for what I have. :love
 
There's a lot of that going on these days. Over the last few years, I have found out about some cheaters whom I wouldn't have suspected. Church people, etc. I'll leave it at that.
 
I currently have one in my circle. Never really anticipated dealing with that. There are things going on that I would never have chosen to have in my circle. :(
 
Beside finding out my ex did it, I've been pretty lucky - or naive. Haven't had to deal with anyone in my circle cheating.

Least ways, not that I know of ...
 
Yeah, I'd really prefer everyone in my circle to have more integrity than that. I have a bunch of cops, and my old security peeps, and after Walmart, a bunch of young kids in my group, and I haven't seen much objectionable behavior. I hope to keep surrounding myself with people who treat others with respect and demand it for themselves.
 
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