LisaC
I'm here to spin the moral compass.
mei lan said:LisaC said:Look, I'm not suggesting that we don't talk about how difficult the next four years could be, but when I come onto this board and see that my friends are now thinking of this in apocalyptic proportion, I find that just a little crazy (and as you said, we are all entitled to how we feel). Especially since I've seen what the last four years were like. We will get through this, we may have to make things a little tighter, but WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS.
For the first time in my life, I actually do not believe this to be true. I'm not being melodramatic or unrealistic...I'm looking at facts. I'm not despondent, because I knew this might happen (although I really didn't think it would, and that was magical thinking I now realize). I'm making plans, and figuring out the wisest course of action for me and my loved ones. But the heart is heavy at the realization of the structural, foundational, and unremedial (absent some massive move by God) damage that has been done to this country.
We were forced to do that a few years ago when hubby took a significant pay cut and my job was on the brink of being eliminated. That put us in crisis mode and we had to re-evaluate every priority we had. We made some major changes and started putting ourselves in a position to save more money. I see houses being foreclosed on and our neighborhood going to pot, but we're not selling because we've been in our house for 20 years - we see the light at the end of the tunnel on mortgage payments and I'm not willing to step into a new mortgage right now for anything. We've scrimped and saved and made sure that if something happens and we need to survive off of one income, we can. We will even move the princess to public school if we have to - I won't like it, but if it comes down to having a place to live or paying tuition, we will make the sacrifice.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not taking this lightly, but I'm not freaking out about it either. Again, maybe it's because we've already done that and now that I know that we can get through it, I'm not as freaked out. We made it through it once and we will do it again. Heck, maybe we will all start getting government checks soon - it would be nice to get some of my tax money back for a change...