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Foxmeister

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Here's the woman I'm looking for. She's attractive, but not necessarily drop-dead gorgeous, age 47 to 55. She's intelligent and feels at ease in most social settings. She's comfortable in jeans and tennis shoes as well as a nice black dress and heels. She takes care of herself physically leading a healthy lifestyle. She will have an occasional drink in social settings. (I can't stand women who feel it's necessary to get intoxicated to have a good time. I myself rarely have an alcoholic drink.) She must be comfortable with her life and NOT be in need of a man, but wants one in her life to share. She's a Christian who is always striving to improve her relationship with the Lord. S

Me? I'll be 55 next month. I have a good job and income. I lead an active life to keep myself physically fit. I have a great sense of humor and I consider myself intelligent. I'm comfortable in most social settings. I'm more comfortable in jeans, but have no problem being attired in formal wear when the occasion calls for it. I love life and my Lord Jesus Christ. I don't need a woman in my life, but would like one to share common interests and the ups and downs of life; as well as grow together. We compliment each other as a couple. I'm laid back and love to laugh as well as make others laugh. Nothing more fun than to have one of those belly busting laughs.

Does anyone know her?
 
Well, yes I do. I know several but, unfortunately they are all married. :( She's out there Fox, but I think you should wait until you get back to the states. LOL

You won't have any trouble, most women should be happy to have a guy like you in their life. Take your time and you'll soon be having the time of your life.
 
Hang in there bud, she'll come along. There will probably be lots of opportunities once you get back.
 
Let me clarify that I'm not looking to get seriously involved with anyone while I'm half a world away. It would be nice to be able to communicate with such a woman as I described while I'm here and then possibly see what happens after I get back. Believe me, I'm in NO HURRY to involve myself in a serious relationship at this point in time.
 
She's out there, Fox! You'll probably meet her when and where you least expect it. I'm glad you have a clear picture of the type of woman you want - so many people really have no idea, and then don't understand when they can't find happiness.
 
I'm Floored said:
She's out there, Fox! You'll probably meet her when and where you least expect it. I'm glad you have a clear picture of the type of woman you want - so many people really have no idea, and then don't understand when they can't find happiness.

I'm going to be real picky this time. Reeeaaaaal picky.
 
It really could be better to start a relationship of sorts while you're so far away. You'd both be forced to get to really know each other without being caught up in any of the physical nonsense. Between email, forums, letters, calls ... you could really connect without worrying if your shirt matches your pants and she wouldn't have to stress about how her hair looks and so on and so forth. And no pressure from family and friends to go to this function or that party or blah, blah, blah.
 
unionmom said:
It really could be better to start a relationship of sorts while you're so far away. You'd both be forced to get to really know each other without being caught up in any of the physical nonsense. Between email, forums, letters, calls ... you could really connect without worrying if your shirt matches your pants and she wouldn't have to stress about how her hair looks and so on and so forth. And no pressure from family and friends to go to this function or that party or blah, blah, blah.

Very good point
 
unionmom said:
It really could be better to start a relationship of sorts while you're so far away. You'd both be forced to get to really know each other without being caught up in any of the physical nonsense. Between email, forums, letters, calls ... you could really connect without worrying if your shirt matches your pants and she wouldn't have to stress about how her hair looks and so on and so forth. And no pressure from family and friends to go to this function or that party or blah, blah, blah.

That's exactly what I was thinking as well. There would be no pressure in getting to know each other and it's safe. She may catch some flak from people saying it may be stupid to communicate with someone you don't know half a world away. The come back should be, "Better than meeting a guy from online in a resaurant only to be drugged and placed into a white van."
 
ok so I know of a couple people..but I will have to feel them out and see if they are dating or interested in dating or even talking via online. One woman is 55 and the other is 54. I'll let ya know ;D
 
Hubby and I met online long before meeting in person. We were truly in love before ever seeing each other in person. (We weren't looking for anyone ... just happened.) Now here we are 13 years after first "meeting" online ...

Of course I do still remind him that I gave up club level season tickets at Camden Yards to move here for him. :rant Now that's love!
 
unionmom said:
Of course I do still remind him that I gave up club level season tickets at Camden Yards to move here for him. :rant Now that's love!

Dude. That is some serious love right there. I'd have had to think about that one long and hard. :D
 
My wife keeps saying that she's going to trade me in for one who has money......I'll send her your way!
 
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